RSD (rejection sensitive dysphoria) can be tricky to navigate when both sides are hurt/offended. Navigating the controversy of offence and penance is big deal when you are neurodivergent
…turning your weaknesses into strengths. From blank thoughts at a crucial moment to non-verbal spells, the struggle to communicate can make or mar your work
Self-discovery – and self-awareness – is not just so that you can reel out facts about yourself in a game at some party, or write a more impressive bio. It’s a journey that should help you structure your growth curves and intentional development to better suit the way you are wired and the things you would like to do
Time feels like quicksand, pouring through our fingers, leaving us grasping at nothing as we struggle to make sense of how much has passed and how much is left. It feels like a trap: and the never ending cycle of trying to fit into a society that thrives on time is a struggle that about 1 in 4 individuals face
In this article, I’d explore how to create Time Pillars and Anchors that help to boost productivity and reduce time-induced stress and anxiety
You could consider More time on tasks Productivity apps Clear timelines Recorded sessions/meetings Emails vs meetings WFH/hybrid options Audio only meetings Tech integrations e.g. live transcriptions, volume options, reminders, Dark screen interfaces
Whether we like it or not; pay attention to it or not; there’s this group of people around us who always watch out for everything we do. They listen attentively to whatever we have to say and more often than not, imitate what we do. The typical human has a desire to “belong” and so
You have to sift for gold and dig for precious stones. In the same way, wisdom will not look for you and understanding will not find you. You have to draw them forth from God’s Word and life’s experiences. Unless you choose to learn and apply yourself to the process, you are going nowhere fast.
When we attempt to force people to forgive and forget on our own terms, we teach them their feelings don’t matter, that their human agency is not valid, but also set the tone for a culture of impunity to take root, and a system of repeated offences and abuse is enabled. Here’s what you can do instead
You will make progress. However, progress might not happen the way society has conditioned you to expect it. …and when you focus on outcomes as against goals, the goals you were conditioned to chase fall into your lap, as natural occurrences in the course of your life
For example, I stutter… but I have never stuttered while teaching Scriptures, and more recently, I found that I almost do not stutter when I talk about autism, ADHD and neurodivergence in general.
I do not stutter when on assignment. I do not stutter when in a prophetic flow.
Number 1 would push you to grow, number 2 would push you to acceptance.
It’s also like when you have Cameroon pepper, fresh habanero and jalepeno
Each of them is pepper, but each one has a different effect on the taste of the recipe, and so you must know which to deploy when making your dish that would produce the spicy effect that you want without overpowering (or being overpowered by) the taste of the other spices and seasonings in your food.
It’s a fight of active brainwashing
if you did not do too well, don’t punish yourself by overcramming the next time slot. It would be setting yourself up for premium tears
Most poignant lessons I learned in the past year
